<?xml version='1.0' encoding='UTF-8'?><?xml-stylesheet href="http://www.blogger.com/styles/atom.css" type="text/css"?><feed xmlns='http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom' xmlns:openSearch='http://a9.com/-/spec/opensearchrss/1.0/'><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15939962.post7483413756719764316..comments</id><updated>2007-10-26T00:47:56.724+01:00</updated><title type='text'>Comments on Reluctant Nomad: I’m surrounded by them!</title><link rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#feed' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://reluctantnomad.blogspot.com/feeds/7483413756719764316/comments/default'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15939962/7483413756719764316/comments/default'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://reluctantnomad.blogspot.com/2007/04/im-surrounded-by-them.html'/><author><name>Reluctant Nomad</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/16093595869651355616</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><generator version='7.00' uri='http://www.blogger.com'>Blogger</generator><openSearch:totalResults>16</openSearch:totalResults><openSearch:startIndex>1</openSearch:startIndex><openSearch:itemsPerPage>25</openSearch:itemsPerPage><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15939962.post-5614736941177773917</id><published>2007-10-26T00:47:00.000+01:00</published><updated>2007-10-26T00:47:00.000+01:00</updated><title type='text'>List of free sex sites</title><content type='html'>List of free sex sites</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15939962/7483413756719764316/comments/default/5614736941177773917'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15939962/7483413756719764316/comments/default/5614736941177773917'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://reluctantnomad.blogspot.com/2007/04/im-surrounded-by-them.html?showComment=1193356020000#c5614736941177773917' title=''/><author><name>free sex sites</name><uri>http://www.simplewebsurf.com/free-sex-sites.htm</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://reluctantnomad.blogspot.com/2007/04/im-surrounded-by-them.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15939962.post-7483413756719764316' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15939962/posts/default/7483413756719764316' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15939962.post-4170669796759708123</id><published>2007-04-16T13:08:00.000+01:00</published><updated>2007-04-16T13:08:00.000+01:00</updated><title type='text'>Caroline: TLA culture?Klara: Thanks. Come visit ag...</title><content type='html'>Caroline: TLA culture?&lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;Klara: Thanks. Come visit again.&lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;Anonymous: Not yet. He’s busy having lots of fun in Amsterdam and sort of working.&lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;J. David Zacko-Smith: Scandalous, I know!&lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;Gay banker: No need to apologise. If your next visit is a longer one, let me know.&lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;angel: It will good to have you properly back. That’s why you have water-coolers – gossip and incubating affairs.&lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;buddess: Sounds like it will be a bit of a tough time for him and his family in the next few months but things often turn out fine for everyone once everyone looks past the ‘wrongness’ of it.&lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;Terri: No stalkers, thank God! Glad to know I entertain. I have to get on to that thinking meme soon.&lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;Ariel: It’s a bluff.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15939962/7483413756719764316/comments/default/4170669796759708123'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15939962/7483413756719764316/comments/default/4170669796759708123'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://reluctantnomad.blogspot.com/2007/04/im-surrounded-by-them.html?showComment=1176725280000#c4170669796759708123' title=''/><author><name>Reluctant Nomad</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/16093595869651355616</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='10517035707036512369'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://reluctantnomad.blogspot.com/2007/04/im-surrounded-by-them.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15939962.post-7483413756719764316' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15939962/posts/default/7483413756719764316' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15939962.post-4512794554861992611</id><published>2007-04-16T12:38:00.000+01:00</published><updated>2007-04-16T12:38:00.000+01:00</updated><title type='text'>Oh bless! You are ever so democratically-minded......</title><content type='html'>Oh bless! You are ever so democratically-minded...</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15939962/7483413756719764316/comments/default/4512794554861992611'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15939962/7483413756719764316/comments/default/4512794554861992611'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://reluctantnomad.blogspot.com/2007/04/im-surrounded-by-them.html?showComment=1176723480000#c4512794554861992611' title=''/><author><name>Ariel</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05930556198513652624</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://reluctantnomad.blogspot.com/2007/04/im-surrounded-by-them.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15939962.post-7483413756719764316' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15939962/posts/default/7483413756719764316' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15939962.post-1502413620486978926</id><published>2007-04-13T13:54:00.000+01:00</published><updated>2007-04-13T13:54:00.000+01:00</updated><title type='text'>So no stalker-like messages on your phone this tim...</title><content type='html'>So no stalker-like messages on your phone this time? Things are looking up :)&lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;And on a completely different note I must just say I haven't been here in a while and have really enjoyed catching up. Your blog never fails to entertain!</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15939962/7483413756719764316/comments/default/1502413620486978926'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15939962/7483413756719764316/comments/default/1502413620486978926'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://reluctantnomad.blogspot.com/2007/04/im-surrounded-by-them.html?showComment=1176468840000#c1502413620486978926' title=''/><author><name>Terri</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/03158421102740382411</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://reluctantnomad.blogspot.com/2007/04/im-surrounded-by-them.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15939962.post-7483413756719764316' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15939962/posts/default/7483413756719764316' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15939962.post-6747987469236733286</id><published>2007-04-13T08:55:00.000+01:00</published><updated>2007-04-13T08:55:00.000+01:00</updated><title type='text'>Someone very near to me and very much loved by eve...</title><content type='html'>Someone very near to me and very much loved by everyone around him recently confessed his preference to his mother who was totally distraught by it.  She needed to tell someone because she couldn't carry it alone anymore and she chose to tell me.  His brothers and sister or dad hasn't been informed yet.  She couldn't understand that I wasn't shocked by it. It doesn't change him as a person. He is still the same guy and I don't love him any less.  They are a very religious family and this is a very big "wrong" in their belief.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15939962/7483413756719764316/comments/default/6747987469236733286'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15939962/7483413756719764316/comments/default/6747987469236733286'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://reluctantnomad.blogspot.com/2007/04/im-surrounded-by-them.html?showComment=1176450900000#c6747987469236733286' title=''/><author><name>buddess</name><uri>http://buddess.wordpress.com</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://reluctantnomad.blogspot.com/2007/04/im-surrounded-by-them.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15939962.post-7483413756719764316' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15939962/posts/default/7483413756719764316' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15939962.post-6874178257066233535</id><published>2007-04-13T06:18:00.000+01:00</published><updated>2007-04-13T06:18:00.000+01:00</updated><title type='text'>hey nomad!i am still laptopless but it looks like ...</title><content type='html'>hey nomad!&lt;BR/&gt;i am still laptopless but it looks like i'm back!&lt;BR/&gt;you know- i have no idea if anyone i work with (client-wise) is gay... its still a case of no-one "owning up to it" (for lack of a better phrase) in this wonderfully free country of ours. very weird! i'm not saying wear a sign or something- but the rumours around the watercooler drive me up the wall!</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15939962/7483413756719764316/comments/default/6874178257066233535'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15939962/7483413756719764316/comments/default/6874178257066233535'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://reluctantnomad.blogspot.com/2007/04/im-surrounded-by-them.html?showComment=1176441480000#c6874178257066233535' title=''/><author><name>angel</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/09423318903817661244</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://reluctantnomad.blogspot.com/2007/04/im-surrounded-by-them.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15939962.post-7483413756719764316' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15939962/posts/default/7483413756719764316' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15939962.post-240550169432007183</id><published>2007-04-12T22:47:00.000+01:00</published><updated>2007-04-12T22:47:00.000+01:00</updated><title type='text'>Sorry I got the details about you wrong in the com...</title><content type='html'>Sorry I got the details about you wrong in &lt;A HREF="http://guyinlondontown.blogspot.com/2007/04/genies-out-of-bottle.html" REL="nofollow"&gt;the comment I made on GIL's blog recently&lt;/A&gt;.&lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;GB xxx&lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;PS: actually I was in Amsterdam last Wednesday so I thought about you.  I was only in the country for 5 hours though, just a quick client visit.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15939962/7483413756719764316/comments/default/240550169432007183'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15939962/7483413756719764316/comments/default/240550169432007183'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://reluctantnomad.blogspot.com/2007/04/im-surrounded-by-them.html?showComment=1176414420000#c240550169432007183' title=''/><author><name>Gay banker</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/07046768019709916759</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://reluctantnomad.blogspot.com/2007/04/im-surrounded-by-them.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15939962.post-7483413756719764316' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15939962/posts/default/7483413756719764316' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15939962.post-4943909424401561101</id><published>2007-04-12T20:51:00.000+01:00</published><updated>2007-04-12T20:51:00.000+01:00</updated><title type='text'>Poofs and dykes - oh my!</title><content type='html'>Poofs and dykes - oh my!</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15939962/7483413756719764316/comments/default/4943909424401561101'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15939962/7483413756719764316/comments/default/4943909424401561101'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://reluctantnomad.blogspot.com/2007/04/im-surrounded-by-them.html?showComment=1176407460000#c4943909424401561101' title=''/><author><name>J. David Zacko-Smith</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/17028163483283414001</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://reluctantnomad.blogspot.com/2007/04/im-surrounded-by-them.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15939962.post-7483413756719764316' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15939962/posts/default/7483413756719764316' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15939962.post-6801804007255202581</id><published>2007-04-12T13:44:00.000+01:00</published><updated>2007-04-12T13:44:00.000+01:00</updated><title type='text'>Have you chatted to your son? What's happening wit...</title><content type='html'>Have you chatted to your son? What's happening with him??</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15939962/7483413756719764316/comments/default/6801804007255202581'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15939962/7483413756719764316/comments/default/6801804007255202581'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://reluctantnomad.blogspot.com/2007/04/im-surrounded-by-them.html?showComment=1176381840000#c6801804007255202581' title=''/><author><name>Anonymous</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://reluctantnomad.blogspot.com/2007/04/im-surrounded-by-them.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15939962.post-7483413756719764316' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15939962/posts/default/7483413756719764316' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15939962.post-6492934531665634991</id><published>2007-04-12T11:53:00.000+01:00</published><updated>2007-04-12T11:53:00.000+01:00</updated><title type='text'>Meanings..Meanings and More Meanings!BTW! U have a...</title><content type='html'>Meanings..Meanings and More Meanings!&lt;BR/&gt;BTW! U have agreat Blog!</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15939962/7483413756719764316/comments/default/6492934531665634991'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15939962/7483413756719764316/comments/default/6492934531665634991'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://reluctantnomad.blogspot.com/2007/04/im-surrounded-by-them.html?showComment=1176375180000#c6492934531665634991' title=''/><author><name>Klara</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/00003194375554449590</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://reluctantnomad.blogspot.com/2007/04/im-surrounded-by-them.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15939962.post-7483413756719764316' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15939962/posts/default/7483413756719764316' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15939962.post-8886346557654709918</id><published>2007-04-12T10:22:00.000+01:00</published><updated>2007-04-12T10:22:00.000+01:00</updated><title type='text'>I just have an over active imagination and can thi...</title><content type='html'>I just have an over active imagination and can think of far too many things that these letters all stand for... and I never was happy with the TLA culture even when I was an active part of it... I can't remember the name of my new camera because its some strange permutation of numbers and letters... maybe thinning it down to single letters will help but let me guess&lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;G = Gentlemen and L = Ladies?&lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;:-)&lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;And word veri says&lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;vhotbxd</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15939962/7483413756719764316/comments/default/8886346557654709918'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15939962/7483413756719764316/comments/default/8886346557654709918'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://reluctantnomad.blogspot.com/2007/04/im-surrounded-by-them.html?showComment=1176369720000#c8886346557654709918' title=''/><author><name>Caroline</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05635758748108011584</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://reluctantnomad.blogspot.com/2007/04/im-surrounded-by-them.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15939962.post-7483413756719764316' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15939962/posts/default/7483413756719764316' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15939962.post-1565011104403217820</id><published>2007-04-12T09:04:00.000+01:00</published><updated>2007-04-12T09:04:00.000+01:00</updated><title type='text'>Qenny: I agree with you. In fact, the GL label som...</title><content type='html'>Qenny: I agree with you. In fact, the GL label sometimes seems a bit false when you consider the way that some gay men talk about lesbians. Vice versa too. But, despite that, it’s a meaningful one that serves a useful purpose. The LGBT label has its uses too but its limitations are apparent by the situations you describe. In this world which favours the norm and tends to think in black and white, it’s a term that is more readily accepted than having a plethora of smaller pressure groups.&lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;andrea: You’re right of course. LGBT types do tend to gravitate towards certain areas like Amsterdam, Vancouver’s West End and Cape Town’s Green point. A statement that is strengthened by the fact that the big boss is an American and the head of technical services a Brit. &lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;We’re like bees round a honey pot!!&lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;chitty: I did too!&lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;But, now you mention lavish social events and swimming competitions, I can see gay guys congregating at such events. ;-)&lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;Caroline: T=Transgendered; B=Bisexual. Where have you been all this time? Bristol? :-)</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15939962/7483413756719764316/comments/default/1565011104403217820'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15939962/7483413756719764316/comments/default/1565011104403217820'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://reluctantnomad.blogspot.com/2007/04/im-surrounded-by-them.html?showComment=1176365040000#c1565011104403217820' title=''/><author><name>Reluctant Nomad</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/16093595869651355616</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='10517035707036512369'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://reluctantnomad.blogspot.com/2007/04/im-surrounded-by-them.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15939962.post-7483413756719764316' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15939962/posts/default/7483413756719764316' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15939962.post-5546697839184901599</id><published>2007-04-12T08:42:00.000+01:00</published><updated>2007-04-12T08:42:00.000+01:00</updated><title type='text'>Um... I'm totally lost here in your letters...</title><content type='html'>Um... I'm totally lost here in your letters...</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15939962/7483413756719764316/comments/default/5546697839184901599'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15939962/7483413756719764316/comments/default/5546697839184901599'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://reluctantnomad.blogspot.com/2007/04/im-surrounded-by-them.html?showComment=1176363720000#c5546697839184901599' title=''/><author><name>Caroline</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05635758748108011584</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://reluctantnomad.blogspot.com/2007/04/im-surrounded-by-them.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15939962.post-7483413756719764316' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15939962/posts/default/7483413756719764316' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15939962.post-3702329377448944833</id><published>2007-04-12T08:00:00.000+01:00</published><updated>2007-04-12T08:00:00.000+01:00</updated><title type='text'>And here I thought a GALA was a lavish social even...</title><content type='html'>And here I thought a GALA was a lavish social event or entertainment or a swimming competition. &lt;BR/&gt;*skulks away*</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15939962/7483413756719764316/comments/default/3702329377448944833'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15939962/7483413756719764316/comments/default/3702329377448944833'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://reluctantnomad.blogspot.com/2007/04/im-surrounded-by-them.html?showComment=1176361200000#c3702329377448944833' title=''/><author><name>chitty</name><uri>http://chitty.wordpress.com</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://reluctantnomad.blogspot.com/2007/04/im-surrounded-by-them.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15939962.post-7483413756719764316' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15939962/posts/default/7483413756719764316' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15939962.post-5471451273349701195</id><published>2007-04-12T02:50:00.000+01:00</published><updated>2007-04-12T02:50:00.000+01:00</updated><title type='text'>I hate to shove home the stereotype but it *is* Am...</title><content type='html'>I hate to shove home the stereotype but it *is* Amsterdam after all! :) In true stereotypical fashion, all the LGBTs I've ever known live or have lived in Vancouver's infamous West End.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15939962/7483413756719764316/comments/default/5471451273349701195'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15939962/7483413756719764316/comments/default/5471451273349701195'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://reluctantnomad.blogspot.com/2007/04/im-surrounded-by-them.html?showComment=1176342600000#c5471451273349701195' title=''/><author><name>andrea</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/16364011769128646998</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://reluctantnomad.blogspot.com/2007/04/im-surrounded-by-them.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15939962.post-7483413756719764316' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15939962/posts/default/7483413756719764316' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15939962.post-6093355681352282174</id><published>2007-04-11T17:12:00.000+01:00</published><updated>2007-04-11T17:12:00.000+01:00</updated><title type='text'>I sometimes wonder whether it's a bit misguided to...</title><content type='html'>I sometimes wonder whether it's a bit misguided to think that the Bs and Ts have the same interests and concerns as the Ls and the Gs.  One T I know is quite happy to describe herself as "what's known as gay-friendly", but hasn't the least sense of kinship or community with Ls, Gs or Bs.  Another T I know is quite the opposite, describing the LGBT community as her whanau (a Maori concept meaning an extended family group).&lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;And most Bs I know are quite happy forging their own communities and identities which overlap with those of the Ls and Gs, as well as those of the mainstream, whilst maintaining an interesting and quite distinct energy and purpose.&lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;The LGBT label always struck me as a bit "everyone but them straight folks".</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15939962/7483413756719764316/comments/default/6093355681352282174'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15939962/7483413756719764316/comments/default/6093355681352282174'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://reluctantnomad.blogspot.com/2007/04/im-surrounded-by-them.html?showComment=1176307920000#c6093355681352282174' title=''/><author><name>Qenny</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/08690609559834656008</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://reluctantnomad.blogspot.com/2007/04/im-surrounded-by-them.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15939962.post-7483413756719764316' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15939962/posts/default/7483413756719764316' type='text/html'/></entry></feed>